Universal problems?

by Maureen on April 19, 2007

The more I use EFT and the more clients I see and help, I realise that there are a great many ‘universal’ problems. Such as? Well: it would seem that a great many of us have issues with our parents. That sounds original!!

‘Lie on ze couch und tell me vat bother you about your childhoot!’

No: we may have problems and issues, we might already have been to traditional therapy regarding these issues but why do we still have that feeling deeeeeeeep inside that we were rejected by our father, or our mother, or that we were never good enough, or if we had been just that bit more perfect then that would have been the clincher… then our dad or mom would love us and hug us and tell us what a great child/person we are.

That is what I love about EFT and energy therapy. When you deal with emotions and not rational thoughts and ideas it is easy to help people ‘normalise’ their emotions and they feel much lighter. Yes, my dad didn’t give me the affection I craved as a child: and why? Because he never knew how. I found that out as an adult but the little person inside me didn’t understand that. The little me thought it was something I didn’t do that made my father so aloof. What a relief to do a few rounds of EFT and realise that it was not my fault. Rationally I already knew that, but I needed to do the energy work with EFT for the emotional part of me to understand.

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